This is another submission from my bondage "survey." This one is interesting in that the rigger gave a warning but did not keep to their position. A good rule is "own your bondage." Do not let others dictate how you use your own rope.
"I knew somebody who was shooting a video and he hired someone to be the Domme who didn't know bondage, so there I was with my hemp.
I tied him to a modified weight machine, using only one wrap of 6mm hemp on the upper arms in a lateral horizontal position. I tried doing more wraps, but he says ' I like the quick and dirty look of it, and I'll be fine."
I argued, explained the potential for permanent nerve damage, argued again, and then went with it, warning him to let me know if he gets tingling or numbess. He was in it for about 1/2 hour, and pulled on it really hard when she hit him with a cattle prod. moved the whole machine.
The next day...
He calls and asks when he'll get sensation back in his thumbs. I say... "could be permanent, is it improving at all? You were supposed to let me know about numbness."
He was flying during the scene and didn't notice. Crap. I'm giving him hell over the phone, while I'm whacking myself on the head for doing it against my better judgment.
It took 3 full days (luckily) to get his original level of sensation back. It taught us both a lesson."
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